Last night the kids and I slept in the backyard in our tent. I am trying to remind myself to say "yes" to them as often as possible. Kids are always hearing, "in a minute", "maybe later" and "not right now" from grow-ups. When they came to me and asked if we could have a camp out - most of me wanted to say "not tonight", "maybe when it gets warmer" (like next summer!) and just plain "no guys". But I took a deep breath and said yes. They were so excited! We had a great time. Daddy made roasted marshmallows in the oven which were actually amazing. We watched a movie, giggled, snuggled, etc. I froze all night. I kept hearing odd sounds that I know were just chestnuts dropping off the trees. But I did it - and it was fun. Everyday I am adding in more "yes" and less "no". Not as much laundry gets done. The floor really needs to be swept. We are behind a day or two on our math - but it is worth it.
I had these ideas about everything I needed to get done before we add baby - making our home a family of seven. All the things on my list were about the house, shopping, schedules, home improvement projects and the like. I think that all we need to focus on before we bring the baby home is being extra sure that everyone feels secure and loved. Making time for EVERYONE should be the goal above making time for EVERYTHING.
Many families in our agency have been receiving referrals at 6 months on the list. We are almost at our 5 month marker! We are getting very close - so our new focus is going to be saying "yes" and enjoying the heck out of each other!
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